People do things for their own reasons. One of the most effective ways to approach the task of persuading another person is to realize that they simply do not care a bit about what YOU want. They only care about what THEY want. If you want someone to do something, then you must show them…
The holiday gift-giving season is once again upon us. Everywhere you look you see ads offering special deals and urging you to “Buy Now and Save!” And while it’s a great thing to show others how much they mean to you with a gift of some kind, how do you know when you’re buying the…
For many people, the whole reason for reaching for unlimited success is to attract and maintain high-quality relationships. As you might expect, the secret to successful relationships starts with the foundations we’ve been discussing these last few weeks. A strong sense of self-esteem is essential. So is having lots of self-confidence. And when you’re motivated…
Money isn’t everything. Although it feels good to earn our way through life and experience the pleasures of riches, the pleasures of being with someone special are also valuable. In fact, I dare say that’s the reason most of us want money and the things it can buy — so we can better enjoy being…
I recently received an email from an Effortless Power subscriber, who asked me for some advice on relationships. I share this with you in case it may be of some benefit to your life. Hello my friend, I think I understand your situation. I’ve gone through several harsh relationships in my life, and sometimes even…
Everywhere I turn lately, I find information to help deal with difficult people. My biggest reaction to all of it is this, why just deal with them when you can completely overcome them? Why just learn to tolerate being around those you can’t stand, when you have the option to either change them or get…
Are you happy in your relationships? Does the partner that you have now fulfill all your desires? Are there things about your partner that you would like to change? For most people, there are at least a half-dozen things they would like to change about the partner that they are in a relationship with. Many…