The #1 Rule in Life and Business

Do you know what the #1 rule is for both life and business?

It’s not always an easy rule to live by, but when you do it well, everything goes your way.

It’s easy to remember what this rule is when you know that everyone’s favorite radio station is:


What’s In It For Me.

Human nature is such that most of us are more concerned with ourselves than we are with others.

In other words, if you want me to do something for you, you need to give me a reason for doing so.

On the flip side, if I want you to do something for me, I’m the one who has to give you a reason.

  • Quid pro quo.
  • Something for something.
  • This for that.
  • Give to get.

In business, this is most often seen as selling a product or service for an amount of money.

  • Give me $10, and I’ll give you this book.
  • Give me $1,000 and I’ll organize your house.
  • Give me $20,000, and I’ll give you this car.

Hmmm.  I must be an old-timer now.

I remember when new cars were around $5,000 and you could buy a decent house for $20,000!

Anyways.  Back on topic.

In life, when you want to attract a romantic partner, you have to present yourself as someone they would want to spend time with.

I’ve been watching the series “Person of Interest” on Netflix.

In the episode I watched last night, a police detective was getting relationship advice, and the guy was telling him that he needed to dress better, smile more often, and relax if he wanted to get a date.

The detective’s response was that all this “just wasn’t his style”.

Lucky for him, he gave it a try, and found that it was worth the effort.

When we change, our lives change.

In other words, our lives are a reflection of ourselves.

“Life is a mirror.”

The core principle behind all effective manifestation techniques is that they change who we are as a person.

When you say affirmations, you’re programming a new belief into your subconscious mind.

When you spend time visualizing your goals, you’re giving yourself time to adapt to a new reality.

Every manifestation technique that works does so because it changes who you are on an inner level.

And after more than 30 years of searching for the best and most effective way to manifest anything, it comes down to one of the simplest.

Relax, imagine, and trust.

The more you relax, the more your inner resistance goes away.

The more detail you include in your imagination, the more your deeper mind adapts to a new reality.

And the more you trust the process, the quicker it works.

Last Friday, I added 3 new guided meditations to the Symbolic Solutions package.

One of the new meditations was intended to help folks increase their sense of self-worth.

It ended up being what I would call a “love fest”.

Incredible experience!

Another of the new meditations is one that came out of January’s workshop, and is specifically for expanding your consciousness, using a process I originally taught in the original Keys To Power course.

And the 3rd meditation is a slight variation on the original Wealth Identity program.  This new one incorporates what I’ve learned about using pleasure to open up the subconscious.

Oh, and this leads to a little addendum to the #1 rule for life and business.

Give more than you’re asking for, and you’ll get much better results.